It refers to a card that contains the specified text or icon in its name, traits, effects, inherited effects, (Rule), digivolution requirements, DNA digivolution, DigiXros requirements, burst digivolve, App Fusion, Link, or Assembly requirements. For example, a card with [Knightmon] in its text would include cards with the name [DarkKnightmon] and cards with the text [Knightmon] in their effects.

Yes, you can.

No, you can't. A "by" condition can't be met if only some of the required actions are performed. The conditions for this [On Play] [When Digivolving] effect require you to place the specified number of cards as the bottom digivolution cards.

No, you can't. Only 1 [Counter] effect can be activated during 1 attack.

Yes, both have to be on XX. For example, if text reads "level 4 or lower Digimon card with the [CS] trait or is yellow or black," it refers to a level 4 or lower Digimon card that has the [CS] trait or a level 4 or lower Digimon card that is yellow or black.

The effects trigger simultaneously, so the player can choose the activation order.